Change Happens When We Stop Trying to Change
As the year draws to a close, many people find themselves reflecting on what has changed and what has not. There is often a quiet pressure to identify progress, lessons learnt, or intentions for the year ahead. For people who have lived through trauma, imprisonment, or long periods of exclusion, this pressure can feel especially heavy. Change is expected. Improvement is implied. Yet the lived experience is often far more complex.
At The Reasons Why Foundation, we have learnt that meaningful change rarely arrives through effort alone. It does not come from being told to do better, try harder, or fix...